Monday, July 06, 2015

Our Nicaraguan wedding

Our wedding in Nicaragua was very laid back. Dinh and I didn't want anything fancy. It was a ceremony to show our commitment to each other and we didn't need to spend a ton of money for that. 
I really think it's foolish to spend thousands of dollars on a wedding that only lasts half a day. Can you believe some people spend $50,000 on their wedding?! And even more!! That's nuts!!
It's frivolous and, honestly, I would rather spend that money on something more important. Sometimes people lose sight on what's really important in life. 
Our wedding was perfect, in our eyes. We had the ceremony at the resort where we live in Nicaragua. It's a small community and everyone showed up to celebrate with us. 
Now I'm married to my best friend. I know everyone says that, but he REALLY is my best friend. I'm so glad I found him :)
Here's a few pics from the wedding:



Hawaii to California

After soaking up all that Hawaii had to offer, Dinh and I decided to move back to California. We were both getting a twinge of island fever. 
It was time to go. 
Hawaii is an island, it's expensive. What we were paying for a one bedroom cottage, we could pay for our mortgage in our 3 bedroom house in California. Dinh owns 2 homes in Laguna Niguel, California. It made more sense to live in one of them, rather than fork over a ton of cash each month in exchange for a tiny living space. 
So, off we went.... again. We gave the renters in California a couple months notice that we were returning, and we moved into our Orange County home. 
South Orange County beaches
Hawaii is amazing, but it feels SO far away from home. Dinh's parents, brothers and sister all live in Southern California. And my family is only a 3 hour plane ride away in Minnesota. 
 Even though the water is a colder in Southern California, compared to Hawaii, it's still a great place to live. 
After taking a few months to settle into our Cali home, this happened......
 Yep, Dinh asked me to marry him!!!
We decided to get hitched in California and then have the ceremony in Nicaragua. A beach wedding. Couldn't be more perfect....
Wow, I was actually "settling down". But I knew this would not be the end of my vagabonding.....



Saturday, July 04, 2015

Hawaii video

Here's a silly video Dinh and I made while in Hawaii :)

Hawaii bound

While in Antarctica, I did a lot of thinking. I had planned to travel for longer than I did, however, circumstances came up and I decided to end my trip earlier than planned. 
Dinh and I were unsure of where we would live after the trip. He was still at our house in Nicaragua. 
I honestly didn't know if our relationship would survive the big trip. I mean, there were times when we seriously wanted to kill each other.
You think I'm joking. 
Imagine spending 24/7 in a car with someone for 2 months straight. It was rough sometimes, but it definitely made our bond stronger. We worked through our differences and are much better off because of it. 
As I was shivering in Antarctica, I thought about how badly it sucked to be cold. 
I seriously hate being cold. 
It was then and there that I decided we should move back to Hawaii. I emailed Dinh from the ship and he was on board with the decision, too. 
Done deal. 
So, after Antarctica, I made the long journey back home to Minnesota from Argentina. I was excited to be back "home", like usual. Familiar lands and familiar faces. 
Straight away, I got to work trying to find another job in Hawaii. It happened a lot quicker than I expected and I ended up having to head to Hawaii about a week after I got home. The job would not wait. So off I went. Across an entire ocean, back to my well known paradise. 
Allllooooohhhaaaa!!!!
The plane touched down, the doors opened and that intoxicating tropical air hit my face. I realized I had made the right decision. 
I rented a car and stayed in a hostel for a few days while I looked for a place to rent and waited for my car to arrive. I had shipped my vehicle from Seattle. Dinh would be meeting me in a couple weeks. 
I left my furry daughter, Harely, with my parents in Minnesota until I could get settled, then flew back about a month later to get her.  
"Don't forget to bring me to Hawaii!"
In case you didn't know, the process of bringing a dog into Hawaii is quite tedious. It involves blood work, lots of paperwork and then waiting for 4 months. You don't have to put your dog in quarantine if you follow certain steps. My vet back in Minnesota is excellent and she had helped me with the process last time. This would be the second time bringing Harley to Hawaii, and it's never a simple affair. 
Enjoying the view
Travelin' dog
It's not the most pleasant experience to take 3 different flights with a dog. But Harley has become accustomed to traveling in planes and does pretty good. I actually hide her on my lap under a blanket once the plane takes off. She stays really quiet and sleeps most of the time. No one ever knows she's there, except the person sitting next to me. I think it's totally cruel to leave a dog in a little bag under the seat for the entire flight. Serrrrriously. 
Harley was totally happy to be back in warm weather. She loves Hawaii, as you can see from the pictures. 
She actually smiles on the beach
Does it get much better?
Since I only had to work 3 days a week (and Dinh doesn't work because he is retired), Dinh, Harely and I had plenty of time to have fun in Hawaii, like we usually do. 
A trip to Kauai
Dinh in Kauai
We hike A LOT in Hawaii!
Surfin' dog
Our happy little family

Wednesday, April 29, 2015

Port Lockroy, Antarctica

My very favorite stop on the Antarctica expedition was Port Lockroy. 
It used to be a British base back in the day. Today, it functions as a museum and gift shop. There are actually 4 girls that live on the little island during the summer months. They have the important job of counting penguin eggs, and running the gift shop, of course. 

Port Lockroy is a popular tourist stop. The coolest part about Port Lockroy: you can mail postcards there! I sent about 15 postcards to my friends and family back home when I was there. Let me tell ya, it's pretty groovy to get a postcard ALL the way from Antarctica. 
I give the girls that live here a lot of credit. They have to endure the harsh elements, be without internet or shower, and deal with tourists all day long. We had the honor of letting these brave girls hitch a ride back to Argentina with us on our way back home. It was the end of the summer season, and time for them to head back home. I was able to talk with a couple of the girls over dinner one night. It was so interesting hearing their stories. They told me about how they had gained weight due to their diet consisting mostly of canned and dried foods. They were so delighted to have fresh fruit on our ship!
Here's a few photos from Port Lockroy:
Mailing my postcards
The gift shop
curious guys
And here are a few odds and ends pics that I wanted to post:
The route our boat took
Polar plunge 



Sunday, April 05, 2015

Breathe the fresh Antarctic air

A cruise to Antarctica isn't like any other ordinary cruise. It's an EXPEDITION, remember?
It's not like taking a cruise in the Caribbean, people. 
But it can be just as relaxing.
All the hard work was left up to the captain and his 3 co-captains. They would take shifts navigating the icy seas while we enjoyed the scenery outside. They situated us carefully in bays so we could venture out and explore the land and water that lay in front of us. They would study the weather and determine the safest route. For this, I really appreciated them. 
One day when I returned to my cabin from the gym, I found a letter that was delivered under my door. It had my name on it. This is what it said:
It was an invitation to have dinner with the captain. 
I looked at my 2 roommates suspiciously, "Is this a joke?", I asked. They both shrugged their shoulders. I was the only that received this letter. I had no idea what the dinner would entail. It made me nervous. The captain was basically incognito up until this point. I didn't even know what he looked like. 
That evening, I cautiously made my way to the dining room and spotted my name on a card at a special table. There had been only a handful of people selected by the expedition leader to sit with the captain at his table. I was flattered. 
I enjoyed an evening with the captain, who was from Ukraine, along with a couple from Australia, a couple from Hong Kong and a man from New Zealand. They were all exquisite human beings. Full of wisdom and kindness.... and lots of wealth. 
They were all at least 20 years older than me. 
Surprisingly, the captain was a tad bit timid. He was very poised and had all the manners one could imagine. I felt safe knowing that he would be bringing us back safe to Argentina. I was really happy I was one of the chosen ones to take part in such a special dinner occasion. Everyone talked equally, the conversations interesting. We had such a good time talking, we were the last ones left in the dining room at the end of the night. 
It was at this time when there was unrest in the Ukraine with Russia. The captain shared some information about his family back home that were affected by this. His wife and children were back in Ukraine and it was obvious that he was worried about them. Soon he excused himself from the table after telling one too many tales of the atrocities going on back home. It was hard to see such a solid man become emotional. He returned to the helm to do his very important job. 
My poor roommates slept most of the time, due to their debilitating sea sickness. I would often roam around the ship on my own and hang out at the far corners of the boat, watching the scenery pass by. It was really amazing to think that I was in Antarctica. I did a lot of thinking. And a lot of reading.  
I realized there are important lessons to be learned on such a unique adventure. Lessons about life. 
The pureness of the air and pristine terrain clears your mind and forces you to think differently.  
The fresh air was intoxicating. Antarctica is far, far away from anything that would cause any type of air pollution. 
Watching the sea lions play, it reminded me to be more carefree. Don't take life so seriously. Life should be fun. Worrying does no good.
These amazing creatures living out here. How do they do it? How do they live in such a harsh environment and still keep their upbeat attitude? I was mesmerized by them. They can teach us all valuable lessons.
Sometimes I forget this.
The leopard seal, one of the most vicious animals in 
Antarctica, but you couldn't tell just by
looking at him
I felt myself slow down and adopt the attitude of the sea animals. 

How lucky were they to have old, elegantly shaped icebergs as their playground?! 
Lucky ducks.
On the outside, they seemed peaceful. Not to have a worry in the world. But I knew this wasn't always the case. These animals had to fight to survive. I know it can be a struggle everyday to find food and stay out of the jaws of their predators. But they sure had a way of making us think otherwise.  


Friday, March 13, 2015

Penguins!

Watch this video! Now you know how cute the penguins sound.....